Achieve. How I Stay Inspired As An Entrepreneur.
Oct 20, 2020
I am the founder of 1Evalution, a boutique coaching firm, author, and a certified life coach. Being an entrepreneur is fulfilling, but it is also challenging. However, I am mindful every day of my purpose, which keeps me encouraged and inspired.
It was not my plan to become an entrepreneur. I became an entrepreneur because I was seeking my purpose in life. After being diagnosed with breast cancer and having a reoccurrence within five years, I left my corporate job of twenty-nine years. I permitted myself to take five years off before seeking other employment. During this time, I became a professional volunteer, and after the five years passed, I was stuck. I didn’t know how to move forward or what to do with the rest of my life.
Although I felt stuck, deep down inside, I knew God was not through with me. So I started searching for my life purpose, questioning what I am to do with the rest of my life? I was wandering around observing how others were living their lives while trying to understand what is the greater purpose for me. I began to lose confidence and a sense of being. I realized that without my corporate job, I had nothing to associate myself with or to be a part of, so I felt this overwhelming sense of emptiness. I began to unravel, crying out internally, desperately wanting more for my life.
Finally, I sat down and identified, prioritized, and defined my top five values. Now I had a foundation. I knew whatever I did with my life going forward would have to be aligned and satisfy my five values. Eventually, I enrolled in a coaching program. It was during my training to become a coach that I had my first emotional breakthrough and started to tap into the person within me. This breakthrough was the beginning of my transformation.
I was looking outside for the answers when all along they were within me. I started to get to know the person within. I learned that I had become an emotional prisoner and was holding myself hostage. I had to confront my fears, which had a stronghold on me. Fear had one mission; to prevent me from growing and maintaining a life of status quo. I was unfulfilled and knew there was more to my life, so I was determined to move forward. Although this was a pivotal time in my life, going through the training to become a coach and having a coach guided and helped me tap into the person within.
The more I tapped into the person within, unmasking my feelings and facing my fears, the more confidence I gained. I knew in my heart that I wanted to work with women empowering them to do the same. I had found my purpose and prayed for God to guide me. It took months before I could articulate my vision, and I questioned myself - am I good enough – who do you think you are - I finally gained the courage to admit that I wanted to help women unmasks their feelings, pursue their dreams and live the life they desire.
This process of transformation taught me that whatever is going on inside can have a direct impact on every area of my life, including my business. So I strive to live healthy in all areas of life and be my authentic self. Although there are days more challenging than others, I am grateful that I found my purpose and am committed to living a purposeful and more fulfilling life by empowering women to do the same.
On those days that are challenging, I am mindful of my purpose and refer to my list below, which helps me stay focused, motivated, encouraged, and inspired.
- STAY CONNECTED TO YOUR WHY - IT IS YOUR PURPOSE
- Know WHY you started your business, the foundation - your vision
- Manage your expectations, know that it takes time to build a business
- Acknowledge you may not be where you want to be, but continue to work on your processes
- Be clear about the value you add
- BE INTENTIONAL - TRAIN YOUR MIND – BE FOCUSED IN HEART AND CLEAR IN MIND
- Start each day with prayer and gratitude
- Be aware of negative versus positive thoughts
- Be conscious of your behavior
- Work your plan, be flexible
- BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF – AWARE OF OBSTACLES
- Surrender to self
- Seek out and confront your obstacles
- Do your best, show up your best, give your best
- Commit to ongoing personal and professional development
- KNOW YOUR VALUES – THE CORE OF WHO YOU ARE - BRAND
- Make principle, value-based decisions
- Define and know the characteristics of your brand, personal and professional
- Know what is important to you
- Make decisions and choices based on what is important
- SUPPORT - YOU DON’T HAVE TO GO IT ALONE
- Surround yourself with people that believe in you, positive energy
- If you need help, seek help (mentor, coach, therapist, accountability partner)
- Know that you may lose some relationships along the way
- Embrace new relationships
- ALIGNMENT - CONNECT AND MAKE SURE ALL ASPECTS ARE IN SYNC
- Everything you do must be in alignment with what you want to achieve
- Your thoughts, words, habits, actions all must be in alignment
- Develop new behavior and habits
- Review, reevaluate and make changes to your plan, if necessary
- BE COMMITTED - TO YOURSELF AND YOUR CLIENTS
- Have the integrity to remain consistent with your actions
- Be disciplined, stay the course, and follow-through
- Stay strong and be courageous
- Challenge yourself, go beyond your comfort zone
- ACKNOWLEDGE YOURSELF - BE CONFIDENT IN YOUR TALENTS, SKILLS, AND ABILITIES
- Celebrate even the smallest wins
- Be mindful that you took a leap of faith, trust God
- Know that you are making a difference
- Believe in yourself - you can achieve what you desire
- DOCUMENT ACCOMPLISHMENTS - AT THE END OF EACH MONTH, QUARTER, YEAR
- Name one thing you accomplished
- Acknowledge how it made you feel
- Articulate what you learned
- Take positive energy into the next month, quarter, year
- DON’T LOSE SIGHT OF WHAT’S IMPORTANT
- Embrace trials and tribulations
- Remember this is your purpose
- Start the year with a vision of a positive future
- Enjoy the journey